"Love prospers when a fault is forgiven, but dwelling on it separates close friends.”
Forgiveness is very easy to contemplate and yet complicated to do. Like many things, we often reap the most reward after pushing ourselves past comfort. Are you comfortable in your unforgiveness toward yourself or someone else?
What can you gain by forgiving? That is something a chaplain cannot answer for anyone but themselves, but God can answer it for anybody, His ears are always open...